with open arms and open eyes: wink

writingspeechless:

it was part club part bar and I was half skank half class and it was kinda late and kinda early and the music was just all right but the guys were kinda short and not too cute and the girls were kinda sweaty and much too close and the beer was on the floor and all above heads and boys touched and…

by 19, i had found my look. oversize t-shirts, bike shorts, and wrestling shoes. to prevent the silhouette from being too baggy, i would cinch it at the waist with my fanny pack. i was pretty sure i would wear this look forever. the shirts allowed me express myself with cool sayings like ‘there’s no crying in baseball’ and ‘universität heidelberg,’ the bike shorts showed off my muscular legs, and the fanny pack held all my trolley tokens. i was nailing it on a daily basis. find something like this for yourself as soon as possible.

tina fey  (via thatkindofwoman)

HAHAHAHHAHAHA #GPOY. Tina Fey is my hero.

11. Your Family

Most supportive, caring, brilliant bunch of folks I know. We’re not super close to anyone outside our immediate circle in the US (parents, sister, uncle on my mom’s side, aunt & cousin), but those that are here are my everything. No words can articulate how highly I think of my family & how proud I am of them. They are the definition of the American Dream and inspire me every single day to be better than I am. The older I’ve gotten, and further away from home I’ve moved, the more I’ve come to appreciate their words of wisdom, their kindness and their dedication to providing the best they can for their children.

10. First 10 Songs From iTunes On Shuffle

1. Milli Vanilli - Blame It On The Rain
2. Michael Jackson - Lady In My Life
3. Raekwon - Staten (Go Hard)
4. 50 Cent - Magic Stick
5. J-88 - The Look of Love (Acapella)
6. Marlena Shaw - Go Away Little Boy
7. Nick Charles - The Three Dogwoods
8. Slade - My Oh My
9. Ludacris feat. Mary J. Blige - Runaway Love
10. KRS-One - South Bronx

9. How Important You Think Education Is

Immensely so.

Since graduating in December, I’ve been drafting thoughts and reflections on my tremendously pricey undergraduate education, which has always concluded in a growing appreciation for academia. While I understand that a structured system may not be meant for everyone, it speaks volumes of those who are able to finish it, and finish it well. As my father always says: “It is about the process, not the end result. Everyone can do what they want to do, but not everyone can do what they need to do.”

My education has taught me more than just communication theory, how to use pentool and Daoist proverbs. It’s provided me a new world view in which to analyze problems, diagnose solutions and ultimately contribute back to society. It’s instilled in me a discipline I was never able to self-impose. Over three and a half years, my education has changed me from a potential dropout to someone contemplating a dual Masters and potential doctorate.

If there is anything more important than education, it is our educators.